Something To Think About

Tonight I was going to write about some stupid stuff , but that suddenly changed after speaking with a close friend. You know how sometimes it's easy to dismiss someone who's done you wrong or hurt beyond repair (or so you believe)? Well, I've learned that it's not that simple. People who are hurting themselves due to whatever reason, usually hurt the ones they love, not intentionally but it's just a byproduct of their own pain. Instead of pushing that person away, shouldn't you embrace them? Too often we can't get past our pain to help that person that genuinely needs our help. I guess those who know my situation are like "well why can't you do that with your sperm donor?" Well, the answer is simple, I'm not ready to forgive him. My own pettiness and immaturity is to blame. However, I will be able to forgive him oneday, because he is the father of my child and for all of the animosity that have towards her father, I won't be able to grow as a person so that I can be the best parent for her. Anyway, the point of the matter is, I have a friend who's significant other is going through a trying time in his life. Rather than give up on him, she's standing by his side. Sometimes, the people you love, will hurt you more than your enemies. However, it is how you handle the pain that will determine the depths of the relationship. Well, I need to do some more thinking, I'll write more tomorrow. Until the next time..........